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Moments of Frustration as Comedy
One morning when I was particularly tired, I sat down on my daughter's bed, tucked each child next to me and began reading a stack of our favorite children's books. In th cozy, quiet warmth, I fell asleep without realizing it. I awoke with a start and found that I was alone on the bed. After reassuring myself that the house was toddler-proof and that no one could get hurt, I hurried toward a portion of the house connecting the family room, eating and kitchen. As I stepped into the hallway, I was greeted by a sea of Cheerios.
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9/11/2007 1:47 PM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
An African Tale: A Word for the Weary (or the Busy)
The following tale was told to me during grad school by a student from Africa. Although I don't remember his name or his native country, I remember the story. It seems appropriate for many of us as we rush from a busy summer into a hectic fall. A foreigner wanted to quickly reach a destination in the center of Africa. He paid several villagers to serve as his guide. For three days, they pushed through dense jungle, dangerous rivers and then arid desert.
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9/4/2007 9:43 AM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
To Ghana and Back
It's great to be back home in the U.S. and back to my blog! I had hoped to post a few entries from Ghana (west coast of Africa) where I very happily spent the last month, but a blown transformer left the village without electricity for nearly two weeks and a "spoilt machine" (a server that went down at the only Internet cafe within miles) prevented me from updating my online writings.

So... what the heck was I doing in Ghana?
Teaching reading and math to middle-school-aged children at Heritage Academy and conducting a seminar on Appreciative Intelligence for their teachers at a small, developing village called Breman Essiam.

When my 15-year-old daughter was invited by her teacher - a native Ghanaian who is giving back with gusto! - to teach summer school at a school he founded, I agreed to let her go if she found an adult to accompany her. Without missing a beat, she asked if I would go. I could hardly turn down such an invitation, so the two of us found ourselves immersed in Ghanaian culture this summer.

Since a picture is worth a thousand words, here are a few photos to describe out experiences and scenes from typical village life.

Our math class at Heritage Academy - how the students loved to come to school!



The site of the teacher conference - Compared to conference facilities in the U.S., it was unusual - no electricity, white boards or comfy chairs. But the participants were eager and enthusiastic learners.



Carol (me) handing out an award at the end of summer school


A typical village in Central Region, Ghana


Market Day! An outdoor market, lady carrying goods on her head, and baskets of red palm nuts for sale






Each day, mothers and children carry water on their heads from the village well to their little homes.


A young man pounds fufu, a traditional staple food of cassava andplantain, pounded into a gooey dough. Doesn't taste too bad, but I never got used to swallowing it - sort of like eating slime. To eat it, you dip your fingers into your soup, pinch off a mouthful of dough (fufu), re-dip it in your soup, then swallow it whole very quickly so it doesn't stick to your mouth or throat.


A wooden fishing boat, called a canoe, preparing to cast off


All in all, it was a wonderful, memorable experience!

For another perspective, please visit the blog of another member of our group, Bonnie Dalzell. You'll enjoy it.
http://bloggingbonnie.blogspot.com/

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8/28/2007 1:55 PM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
That Which Does Not Destroy Me... The Story of an Exceptional Mom
Nietzsche’s well-known quotation, “That which does not destroy me makes me stronger,” exemplifies irrepressible resilience - the ability to bounce back after a setback (and one of the characteristics of appreciative intelligence). Rather than letting their setbacks, disappointments or tragedies keep them down, some people actually turn their heartbreak into joy and their misfortune into fortune. This entry - about a mother of a child with cerebral palsy - is the first in a series about women who are creating lives they love out of challenging situations.
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6/21/2007 7:28 AM | View Comments (1) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
The Ultimate Hang-out for Stories
We live by stories! We are stories - walking ones with not-yet-determined endings. So how can we not love a place that celebrates them? Highlights of last weekend's Book Expo, just such a place.
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6/4/2007 9:43 AM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
Media Twists and Turns
Anyone who follows media or book trends has probably heard that the way we get our news and communicate with other people is changing. Apparently, blogs are the only areas in newspapers that are growing. There are more recordings and books available than ever before, so we can scoop up millions of niche songs, videos and stories instead of only the top blockbusters, if we choose. There's lots of self-publishing happening, so publishing houses are working harder to earn your attention and dollars

For anyone who wants to learn more about what's happening in the world of books - how the blogosphere is changing what you read, for instance - pop into Book Expo America in New York City this week. For details, see: www.bookexpoamerica.com.

Here's a book that has an interesting twist - a business graphic novel. A first of its kind, They Just Don't Get It! Changing Resistance into Understanding by Yerkes, Martin and Dewey provides business readers with a cartoon/story/lesson for helping your team get on board. While it might scare readers who believe that business reading must look like a memo or have heavy text sprinkled with a few dramatic statistics, it's really a quick easy read that makes its point. You can meet Leslie Yerkes (author of bunches of other good books, too, including a new one Fun Works) at a book signing and give-away at Book Expo this Saturday and Sunday. (Or visit her web site at www.changeisfun.com).

To read an excerpt from They Just Don't Get It, click here. http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/157675328X?ie=UTF8&tag=aide-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=157675328X"%3EThey%20Just%20Don't%20Get%20It!%20Changing%20Resistance%20into%20Understanding.

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5/31/2007 7:23 AM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
Appreciation as Prevention of Tragedy
Six weeks ago we watched a heartbreaking tragedy unfold at Virginia Tech. We mourn when the most innocent of our fellow human beings - kids - become victims of heinous crimes; we are shocked when we learn that they are the perpetrators. Learning that young people are capable of murderous acts turns our world upside down. Can we use appreciative intelligence to make sense of this situation?
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5/30/2007 8:54 AM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
Tell Me a Story: Part 3 of an Interview with Kahan and Lee
In the third (and final) part of an interview with Seth Kahan and Denise Lee, they tell some of their favorite stories about storytelling in organizations and business.
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4/19/2007 6:47 AM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
How Do You Do That?: Part 2 of an interview with Lee and Kahan on Storytelling
Sometimes as organizations learn about the value of storytelling, they get stuck because they don't know how to reap its benefits. In Part 2 of an interview with Denise Lee and Seth Kahan, we hear some of the ways they go about introducing storytelling and stories to people.
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4/15/2007 8:41 AM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
Not Just Fluff: Storytelling in Organizations - An Interview with Seth Kahan and Denise Lee
Since the time of humans sitting around the campfire swapping stories about the day's hunt, we've traded the verbal pictures and sequences of the day with those who will listen. The narratives tell more than the context and details of our experiences--who, what actions happened, the outcomes and direct lessons. They share emotions, values, judgments, beliefs and attitudes. Sometimes told once, and sometimes repeated to the point of legend, stories entertain us, evoke emotion, teach us, show us, change us and inspire us to act. Today's entry is the first of a three-part interview with Seth Kahan and Denise Lee, two people who are change agents in a movement that is reframing storytelling as a viable tool in organizations -- not just fluff.
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4/13/2007 4:05 PM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)